We're almost to the end of January and
if you're like me, some of your goals and resolutions are already looking a
little ragged and beat up.
We start off with good intentions, but those are usually not
enough to get us through the tough middle and on to the end.
So, what do we do? Give up?
Write it off to “that’s how resolutions go?” I’ve got a better
idea: let’s regroup and start over. January 1 is not magic. It’s a nice arbitrary starting point, but
when you decide you’re ready to make a serious goal, any old day will do. Let’s choose today.
Look at the scope of your goal. Was it too hard? Goals are supposed to be difficult, but reachable. Was it not hard enough? If it’s not a challenge, then you probably
won’t take it seriously. Choose a goal
that will move you to work hard and give it your best.
Look at how you measure your goal. Are there measurable
steps? “I want to lose weight before
swimsuit season” is tough, but not really measurable. How much weight? What date are you shooting for? Once you choose a specific goal, say 20
pounds by June 1st, then work backwards from that date and make
specific smaller goals you can meet along the way.
Look at how many goals you set. Much of successful goal setting is changing
your habits. Habits actually take 66
days to change and it takes perseverance to really make that habit stick. Using a chart like the One Thing chart can
help you visually see your progress and keep you from “breaking the chain”.
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Choose
one goal at first. Just one. Make it difficult and measurable and figure
out how you’re going to keep yourself motivated. Once you’ve accomplished this first goal and
made it a firm habit, then you can move
on to your next one.
I chose the goal of getting to bed by
9 pm and it has been TOUGH. I chose more
sleep because I think it will also help with my weight loss goal and
productivity goals, so, I really want to nail this habit. My 66 day chart looks a little sad, but I am
choosing TODAY as my new day one.
I hope you’ll join me in making today not just another day, but
day one towards reaching your best goal.
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